
Yesterday our captain Pig allowed us to have a shower! What a joy, and it was much needed.
But seriously, John was smart to be cautious with water consumption at least until we get closer to the land.
Sol Searcher is equipped with a shower cabin, but we opted to shower on the deck so we can use sea water for the first rinse. After soaping, we would rinse with fresh water that was suspended from the mast in a large plastic bladder.
For those that don't know, John first got me into sailing few years ago when he asked me if I would buy a small 19-ft sailboat half-half with him. We had lots of fun with that boat and both learned a lot from it. Later, John sold me his share of the boat and purchased Sol Searcher.
What I like about John is his stubbornness and his "dang it, let's do it!" attitude. I crave for some kind of adventure in my life, but I tend to make my life too complicated, with too many projects. I am also sometimes too analytical (can't you tell from these posts?). So it's great to have a friend who calls you one day, and out of the blue suggests that two of you should buy a sailboat just because he found a cheap one on eBay. My first reaction was: "Do you know anything about sailing 'cose I sure don't, and where are we going to keep it, and how are we going to tow it with our little cars?" John's response was "Nah, we'll figure it out."
I think in his younger days he was a true punk. When I say true punk, I mean he more or less lived the punk culture, not just posed as a punk. Remains of those days still show today in his stubbornness--forget about suggesting anything to him, he's gonna take your advice only after his own plans fail.
He also likes to play a jerk sometimes, but he does it with a good sense of humor. Like his remarks about how he's going to trade Tanya for drugs once we get to Belize. Or that one time when he had his old VW van with sliding door on the side, and Maria, a friend of ours, was in the van telling us about something while John and I were standing outside and listening. John's hand was on the sliding door as we were about to get in the car and hit the road as soon as Maria's finishes her story. But the story got long, so John just simply slid the door shut in the middle of Maria's sentence. It was so funny though, even Maria had to laugh.
Or, that one time when we went sailing on our first boat, and I brought a fancy camera to take some pictures. While I was messing with the sails, John took my camera and took a picture of his butt. What he didn't know was that I borrowed the camera from my parents, and that they eventually developed the film.
As a captain, he's good at communicating his frustrations, and not always so good in communicating his intentions. But as this sailing adventure progresses, I am having more and more confidence in him. Both Tanya and I depend greatly on John during this trip since he is so much more familiar with his boat. Sol Searcher is like a little space ship--it takes great amount of knowledge to operate it.

What gives me confidence are some moves that he made in the last few days. When winds were high and sea was rough the other day, he reduced the sails in the middle of the day. My reasoning at the time was, let's use the wind to the max while we can, why reduce them now? But when the night came, and the wind got even stronger, it was really good that sails were trimmed. Trimming the sails at night would be risky in those conditions. And doing it in the middle of the day was smart because if something bad happened (like, one of us falling overboard), we would have had plenty of daylight to deal with it.
John also constantly checks things on the boat, like the engine, the screws, and lines. He gets into the hot engine compartment every so often to check on oil filters, and does not leave anything to the chance.
Despite all the roughness, he also has a soft side. He is a romantic--he loved his VW van while he had it, and his sailboat is the center of his life. He cares for nature and he's very careful with what we throw overboard. He can be kind too--he spent a whole bunch of money on a surgery for a wounded cat that one day showed up on his door. He later named the cat God, and God is with us on this trip.
But normally kindness comes from him retroactively. He would yell at us "Are you going to just stand there and watch, or you're going to help me?!" and then later he would apologize for snapping. Today he caught a nice sized sail-fish, and than he let it off the hook as he was feeling guilty: "Sorry fish,... poor guy... oh, I hope he'll be all right."
He's probably going to hate me for saying this, but to me, he is also very Texan. And I mean that in the most positive way.
Simply put, he is a punk cowboy sailor. And I'm sure glad I'm sailing with him.